It
 is said that impunity starts from a little misdemeanor left unpunished 
and as such, whoever spares the rod, ultimately spoils the child...to 
prevent these from happening, urgent and decisive measures have to be 
taken to nip the irritant behaviours as soon as they crop, in the bud. 
The day was saturday around 11 am, the wind which blew was cool and 
balmy to the feel while the brightly shone sun gradually got swallowed 
by an avalanche of heavily pregnant ashy-blue cloud filled with rain 
water about to be unleashed on the city, sparks of lightening could be 
seen striking intermittently behind the clouds and the intensity of the 
wind grew stronger and cold, causing whirlwinds  carrying off nylons and
 trash in the air as people scuttle all over to quickly find a shelter 
from the strong winds and impending rain while owners of petty selling 
stores around quickly closed down their shops or threw a large tarpaulin
 over their wares they couldn't quickly carry in.  
Mom and I were  
driving home from her sisters' house, the windshield wiper waving 
frantically against the windshield glass, making the almost croaky 
sound while somewhere inside our home whose outdoor view at that moment 
looked weirdly deserted and ghostly quiet and cold, probably due to the 
change in weather and the frantic waving of tree branches from the wind 
giving it an opening scenario in a horror novel,lewd remarks could be 
heard, sexual moans uttered and  the slapping sounds of spanking going 
off on someone's flesh  while sounds of things falling off from an 
apparent acrobatic sexual encounter was going on... Mom and I looked at 
each other in knowing shock of who the culprit behind those  could most 
probably be...HAMZ! Drama is about to loom large amongst the Adagiri 
brothers....Are your seat belts fastened? Let's go! 
Mom and I had gone 
out early that morning to deliver some food stuffs to her sisters which 
she does occasionally albeit grudgingly as they never ever appreciate 
whatever good she does. Since I am Mom's wing man who is so intellectual 
and gives epic clapbacks, she always takes me along to visit them just 
incase there's a need to get shady so she has a team, Hamz seemed 
unusually helpful that morning, doing everything we needed help with as 
though he wanted us to get out of the house fast. He helped carry the 
bags of rice into the car booth and the jerrican of groundnut oil 
amongst other food stuffs into the car and kept asking us to get going 
before we hit the saturday traffic consisting of people going for their 
weekend groove of weddings, parties et al, I kept giving him a 
suspicious side glance, asking if he woke up on the right side of his 
bed as he was being unusually so helpful, he retorted, saying if he 
wasn't helpful, I would be the one screaming to high heavens about how 
mean and useless he was. I went along with it and thanked him with a 
tone heavy with sarcasm, he eyeballed me, fetching the jerrican of 
groundnut oil and bouncing off towards the car. 
Unknown to us, Hamz had 
planned a sexual rendezvous at our place with some girl who is his 
fuckmate! Mom and I left for her sisters' home while QT and Karl went 
for their morning jug and workout which Hamz was suppose to join but 
gave flimsy excuses of being in pain all over his body to avoid the 
exercise. Not sooner had we left than Hamz called up his plaything and 
the very dark complexioned girl in her late teens with very thick curves
 sashayed into our compound to the admiration of Garba the gateman who 
apparently knew why she was there and let her in and soon after she 
entered and the door closed behind her, Hamz grabbed her like a hungry 
lion into his shirtless torso, literally peeling her clothes off her, 
sucking and kissing her all over and quickly taking her upstairs to make
 hot love to. 
First off, I hate the girl...yeah! I know, you all would 
say I hate most of the girls my brothers get with and how I frustrate 
their lives out of my brothers' lives, but it's true, the girl isn't the
 type of girl my brother should be with even if it's just a fling, 
second of all, Hamz is becoming addicted to sex, I still haven't 
forgotten how he bombed into my smooch with Simi in FONDLE FOR TWO or 
the numerous other scandals involving sex he's gotten into which you are
 all aware some of which includes GRANDE SORTIE, WHAT POLITICS HAS DIVIDED amongst numerous others that it's about time we his brothers 
stage an intervention...which is what I did but got knocked by the rest 
of the boys for. 
On getting home, I  signaled for Mom not to horn or 
make any kind of noise that would catch their attention to make them 
stop, I quietly turn open the front door knob to see if it's unlocked 
but it was locked so I took my spare key and quietly opened the door and
 together with Mom whose face was seething with rage but trying to 
maintain a calm exterior trudged along in a tiptoe with me upstairs. At 
the front of the door leading into their room which was left open, 
Hamz's sweaty body pounded voraciously away at the girl's hourglass 
silhouette, her legs flung up in the air and occasionally hitting Hamz's
 shoulder as she shut her eyes in sexual ecstasy and Hamz drove into her
 with passion, thrusting with all the strength in him, I was almost 
turned on but turned to look at Mom whose face was red with anger and 
mortified to say the least, her mouth falling to the ground in utter 
horror which sent my rising boner deflating immediately, she screamed 
and rushed into the room, picking up a broom stick lying against the 
wall and hitting both Hamz and the girl who were both horrified to hear a
 sudden scream and seeing us there, Mom lashed and whipped their wet 
bodies which sent the stings delving in flashes into their bodies as 
they both yelped in pain, jumping up and about as they tried to quickly 
pick up their clothes and Mom screamed at me to quickly close and lock 
the door which I did, Mom whipped both Hamz and the girl and told the 
girl to get out and never set her feet into our house again, I felt pity
 for the girl as she still scrubbed and patted her sweaty body with 
marks of the beating she got visible all over her body as she quickly 
picked up her clothes, her heavy breasts dangling all over the place as 
she hopped about, Hamz's eyes were red now with tears as he knelt down, 
begging Mom, his deflated manhood dripping with pre-cum, smearing all 
over his thighs, Mom shut her eyes and whipped him which sent him 
screaming and jumping all over, quickly running behind me to act as a 
shield, Mom screamed at me to make way so he wouldn't use his semen to 
stain me lest I become unclean to pray and would need to go and shower 
and peform the ritual bath of ghusl, I hesitatingly gave way but Hamz 
held on to me. 
Some moments later, QT and Hamz came and were shocked to 
see Hamz naked and being whipped by Mom after pounding heavily at the 
door before I opened the door , Karl quickly went to Mom and held her 
hands, stopping her from beating Hamz and said it was wrong as Hamz was a
 young adult already and shouldn't be flogged like a kid again, Mom 
screamed saying ,
"This is nigeria, even if Hamza is 30 years old and 
married, I can as his mother still flog him if I choose to and if he 
misbehaves", 
She went ahead to narrate all that happened and instantly, I
 got the cold look from QT and Karl, Mom later went out and got dressed 
to go out but gave a stern warning for Hamz not to leave the house as he
 was grounded, pointing at myself, Karl and QT to make sure we don't 
defy her orders by letting Hamz step out, not even to the compound. The 
moment Mom left, QT and Karl turned to me, tongue-lashing me for 
allowing Mom do that to Hamz, I clapped back immediately, 
"Why wouldn't I
 allow her flog Hamz? Hamz is going too far, need i recount all the 
troubles and heartaches Hamz has brought this family because of his 
randy ways with women? Am disappointed at you guys for supporting Hamz, 
we need to stage an intervention on his issue", 
Hamz snapped at me, 
calling me unprintable names and how evil I was, he continued, 
"I HATE 
YOU MAJ, I SWEAR, I WISH MOM HAD ABORTED YOU, YOU ARE VILE, JEALOUS AM 
SLAYING WOMEN AND YOU ARE NOT, FUCKING PUNK, HOMOSEXUALS' PREY BITCH! I 
HATE YOU MAJ, AMMA GOINNA FUCK ALL YOUR GIRLFRIENDS",
 I didn't respond, I
 just kept smiling, he was hurt and so I wouldn't stoop to his level, I 
just calmly responded,
 "Oh baby brother, it is hard, I know, this is 
humiliating and tough but someday, you will remember this day and know 
that I've always loved you, it's called tough love bro! I had to let Mom
 beat the bejesus outta you, you hobgoblin! You don't bring your bitches
 here to fuck, you got it? And am not going to be pulled into your drama
 when another bitch comes with a bulging belly or getting infected with 
diseases...physical and spiritual, don't you know that when two people 
make love, their souls touch? Why would you let your soul touch with a 
bitch like that who could probably have generational curses in her 
lineage?", 
QT fired back in Hamz's defense, he said, 
''OH SHUT UP MAJ, 
what sort of brother are you? Am sure you planned this whole set up, why
 can't your brother catch some fun? You dare not try this with me Maj, 
else. I will gut you...you're wicked", 
I gave him a beatdown look and 
said,
 "I wouldn't allow your brother bring skanks into our home, 
disrespecting and defiling the home in which we pray, Hamz needs to 
chill on the marathon sex and if you guys won't tell him the truth, then
 it's you guys who hate him the most", 
Hamz scoffed and charging towards
 me, pointed at me saying, 
"I hope you don't bring any woman into this 
house Maj, I will personally make sure I sabotage your groove, if any 
homosexual makes advances at you, I will make sure I leave you to your 
own fate to deal with it, I will never ever forgive you for this 
Maj....I HATE YOU SO MUCH....And oh! Henceforth, I do not want to be 
discussed on your fucking blog again, have I made myself clear?",
 I got 
incensed at his audacity to talk to me in that manner, I couldn't care 
that he looks stronger than me, Karl could see that my next words or 
action could lead to a fight and quickly came to grab me from behind, 
tears welled up in my eyes at the hurt of not being able to hit him at 
that moment and Hamz smirked, thinking he got me but I charged at him as
 Karl held on to me but I managed to slap Hamz across the face with the 
tip of my fingers, he kicked me with his foot in my tummy as i yelped in 
pain then picked a remote control from the bed and flung at his face 
which hit his cheek and immediately swelled up, QT held Hamz who 
screamed, asking to be let free so he can deal with me, my face was the 
look of thunder, thinking of the many ways I want to hit him and 
strangle him to the point of death, I was enveloped by rage, Karl pulled
 me away from the room and into our room while QT pushed Hamz to a chair
 while he pulls off the soaked bedsheet where Hamz had had sex with the 
girl, bundling it up and showing Hamz, saying he needed to wash it as it
 was his responsibility then threw it inside the dirty clothes basket. 
Hours later and we were both calmer but weren't speaking to each other, I
 cooked rice and stew and intentionally served Karl and QT but didn't 
serve him, he arched his eyebrow in defiance and bounced into the 
kitchen to serve his food, I told him not to touch the plates I'd washed
 as he didn't wash the plates as it was his duty, so he picked a dirty 
plate to wash. I went to sit at the dining table, eating my food and 
staring at Hamz, trying to harsh out a plan to make his life unbearable.
 Mom got back home later that evening and Hamz quickly left the sitting 
room to his room to avoid her, I went upstairs later and pretended to be
 looking for something in Hamz's and QT's room but wanted to see what 
Hamz was doing and found him reading a horror novel I'd given him to 
read a week earlier, snapping my fingers, I demanded for my novel and 
squeezing his face, he threw it at me, I scoffed, nodded, picked my 
novel and walked out of the room, slamming the door loudly behind me, I 
heard him call after me 
"PUNK ASS BITCH", 
I swallowed and moved on, we 
weren't speaking and for now, we are keeping it so. 
KEEP UP

Maj, this post is so raw with emotions, you should have warned readers that there are strong language and swear words in the post and why would you call a girl a ''plaything'' simply because you don't like her? i've been following your blog and over time deduced you have a thing for ''classy'' women, the simi-type of woman, as long as she's classy and speaks well and wears designers, that's all you want, you should apologise to your fans, am disgusted with this post
ReplyDelete-Deborrah welsh, ireland
This is a low blow coming from hamz, i understand he was upset but i didn't quite get what maj's offence was, for keeping quiet while hamz was flogged? what he did was quite annoying but what many view as cool these days, qt and surprisingly karl were wrong to have supported his behaviour, calling out maj for having men constantly ask him out is a lowblow, shame on you hamz
ReplyDelete-Malia, USA
What maj did was bad, what he should have done is distract their mom and later chide hamz for his behaviour, men don't get to be pussies siding with their mom, hamz's cred in the neighborhood has just been torn to shred with what has happened and i see no addiction, i see a yooung lad freely sowing his wild oats
ReplyDelete-Russel, atlanta
@russell, it's men like you that perpetuate misogyny, i see nothing wrong in what maj did and like he said, someday, hamz would reflect on what he's done and totally see the love maj has for him, why would he just plunge into a pussy of a girl with all the attendant risks involved,physical and spiritual like maj rightly stated and i learnt something deep from this post, ''when two people make love, their souls touch'', so it's imperative we check and be certain of the person we lay with hence sex is meant for married couples alone
Delete-Marissa, long island
A very controversial piece..see why anger is bad, we say things that hurt so badly, why would hamz bring up the fact that men ask maj out? it's cruel, maj obviously has detailed the pain and embarrassment this has caused him and how it has hurt relationships in the past, hamz is a scumbag, he needs help and i can't believe karl would support this
Delete-Ryan trevino
They were both wrong, maj having a condescending look for women, he thinks some type of women aren't good for his brothers, that's so wrong and hamz being so childish by calling out maj for being preyed upon by gays which as far as am concerned is a cool thing, it's 2016 peeps! getting hit upon by men n women is considered a cool thing, something sexy celebrities all get, so please stop with the lowblow thingy. maj, i applaud you for doing what you did but i thought you were quite the feminist when you wrote about the women who have inspired you through time, so calling a woman a fuckmate and plaything isn't cool and downplays your reputation as a writer
ReplyDelete-Priyanka, india
Aww,lol, brothers fighting with each other in such a natural thing and i loved what you said ''when two people make love,their souls touch'', hmmmn, touche!
ReplyDelete-yaqs, lagos
hamz is such an annoying little snot, oh, he doesn't want to be discussed on kuwda/ ok now it's done, what are you gonna do about it?
ReplyDelete-VAUGHAN PH
maj, you sure you want all these details public knowledge? it was so vivid and well described
ReplyDelete-OYEDEMI GIDEON
i love how you maintained your calm initially..some brothers need tough love, weldone maj
ReplyDeleteYou're an inspiration maj, never stop telling your story
ReplyDelete-Nneka,lagos
Seriously, what maj did was bad but how hamz reacted is equally horible, slut-shaming maj like that, oh goodness,whatever happened to brotherly love and acceptance? you guys should fix this
ReplyDelete-HENRY HUD, usa
this is serious, hamz won't forget this incident for a long long time and maj, yeah you are the kim who brings drama but this is going too far, you should have clued your brother somehow, though i understand it was difficult with the circumstances, your mom clearly knew what was going on, hamz clearly needs help..#theblacksheep
ReplyDelete-Laura s
maj gave valid points...the only issue is how he went about the issue..guys don't shit on each other like that..hell brothers don't fuck up like that
ReplyDeleteAlena,russia